Success, Experimentation & Vulnerability\n
Most people won’t achieve the level of success they envision for two reasons:
\nWe all grew up in an era where we were told to pick a path in life and stick with it. This outdated mindset is the worst advice you could possibly follow in today’s rapidly changing world.
\nI recently heard this brilliant line: \"success leaves clues.\"
\nOne powerful clue is to adopt an \"Experimenter\" mindset, or better yet, embrace this archetype as part of your identity.
\n\n\n | \n Experimenter (Noun.)\nA person who enjoys testing innovative ideas and observing the results in order to gain new knowledge.\n | \n\n |
\n | \n In \"Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know\" (such a great title...) best selling author, Adam Grant, advocates for constant experimentation by encouraging his readers to \"think like a scientist.\" \nGrant shares a study conducted by European researchers. They wanted to determine if teaching the \"scientist mindset\" to more than one hundred founders of Italian startups would influence their bottom line. \nThe founders were unknowingly divided into two different training groups. Both were trained in entrepreneurship, however, one group was additionally taught to view entrepreneurship through the lens of \"scientific\" experimentation and reiteration. \nTest. Observe. Act. Repeat.\nAfter one year, the founders who were taught to \"think like a scientist\" brought in more than twice as much revenue than the control group. \nThey also pivoted more than twice as often as the control group. \nI love this study. \nAnd...I refuse to solely equate success with the dollar amount of someone's bottom line. \nSuccess is so much more than that. \nI view success as the moment that each one of those start up founders had the courage to pivot. In that moment, they had to admit to themselves (and others) that something wasn't working. \nIn a sense, they failed. But instead of giving up, they chose to \"fail forward.\" \nThey used their mistakes as valuable information to make a new choice, and move forward in a better way. (This is the definition of wisdom.) \nIt's also the core of what fostering Transilience– transformation resilience– is all about: cultivating the courage to leap over and over again, knowing that falling and getting back up again is an essential part of the learning process. \nBy embracing their failures, they were ultimately more financially successful. \nBut again, it's not about the money. I view financial success as a by-product of something much more profound... \nA willingness to embrace creativity, vulnerability, growth and authenticity...over trying to front like you've got all it all figured out. \nThis is why most people are afraid to experiment...\nBecause it's uncomfortable. \nEvery pivot requires taking a risk. \nYes, there are financial risks, and creative risks, but more importantly we're afraid to risk the emotional exposure of leaping and failing in front of other people. \nWhat if I take the leap and don't stick the landing? What if I pivot and face-plant? \nIt's too vulnerable. So instead, we tend to play it safe. \nWe all have some version of a \"play it safe\" voice that likes to chime in when we risk of emotional exposure runs high. \nWhat if I launch a new program and no one signs up? Hmmm...maybe I should just re-run the same program I launched last year. \nWhat if I post this reel or create this piece of art and no one likes it? What if I say something and people judge or criticize me...or worse yet...cancel me? \nFor years, I played it safe by dutifully operating within the confines of a topic-focused niche. After all, the prevailing marketing wisdom said \"pick a niche and stick with it.\" \nBut it just wasn't working for me. I needed to pivot. \nLast year, when I chose to break free from that rigid way of (niche down) thinking and embraced rapid experimentation to become my niche of one, I grew over 175k on IG in less than a year. \nAnd let me tell you...it was highly freaking uncomfortable. \nI had to try a lot of different things outside of my comfort zone. (That's the definition of creativity.) \nAnd you know what? It was painfully awkward in moments. \nI was learning to flex a new muscle, and it's pretty normal to suck at the beginning of any new endeavor. \nAccording to creativity research, the technical term for this is: \n\"throw spaghetti at the wall and see what sticks.\" 🤓 \nSeriously though, in the field of creativity there's a saying that goes: \n\"quantity leads to quality.\" \nThere's a ton of research to back this up, but essentially we know that the more ideas you generate, the more likely you are to strike one really good idea. \nThat means you need to be willing to share 99 very average (or downright shitty) ideas that no one likes before sharing one brilliant idea that has the potential to inspire real change. \nIt comes with the territory. \nWhich points to true essence of what I'm getting at here: \nYou're not going to stick the landing every time. \nSometimes you're going to flail, and other times you might even face-plant. There's no getting around that. \nSo would you rather play it safe? Or would you rather fail (or flail) forward? \nFor me, success on this path is about choosing growth. Even if it looks messy, I'm committed to leaping. \nI once heard Brené Brown say something like: \n\"I don't leap to stick the landing. I leap for the act of flying through the air.\" That quote really speaks to me because it's about learning to fall in love with the creative process itself. And when we choose to fall in love with the process, we're actually choosing to move closer to who we truly are. \nLeaping becomes a radical act of authentic self-expression which inevitable becomes a healing process of self-acceptance. \nAnd yes, it's easier said than done. \nThat's what makes the path of entrepreneurship (in it's myriad forms) so deeply healing and transformative. \nAnd from my experience, financial success is simply a natural by-product of a deep willingness to share the authentic expression of who you truly are despite the emotional risk that comes with the territory. \nStart paying attention to your \"play it safe\" voice.\nStill, to this day, almost every time I'm about to post something on social media, I can hear that \"play it safe\" voice faintly whispering in the background. \nMy \"play it safe\" voice comes from my inner 7 year old who refused to throw a birthday party because she was afraid no one would show up. \nThat voice is still there, I just don't allow her to steer the ship or call the shots. \nAnd every time I hear that voice and still hit \"post\" or \"send\" or \"publish\" I'm acknowledging her, choosing to lead from my worth rather than my wounds. \nStart paying attention to your \"play it safe\" voice. \n
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\n | \n I'm changing it up a bit today by sharing a spoken word track by Emory Hall, in collaboration with her husband Trevor Hall called \"I have been a thousand different women.\" \nI love this line in her poem: \"Make peace with all the women you once were. Lay flowers at their feet. Offer them incense, and honey, and forgiveness.\" \nClick here to listen on Spotify. \nLet me know what you think. \nEnjoy! 🎶 💜 🎶 \n | \n\n |
\n | \n \nFrom my inspired heart to yours, \nLaura Dawn, M.Sc in Creativity Studies & Change Leadership. \nCosta Rica , Diamanté Valley , 11111 \n \n\n\n | \n\n |
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